The Big Catch

When women meet a guy that is good looking and with a healthy wallet and seem to be Mr Right, We see it as a big catch. When the guy befriended to us, in our thoughts we often think he likes me, but the sad thing is that you are the only one who think and feel that way, and for that matter we give all our best shots to make the guy committed to us, We forgot to think and realized that he only offers friendship and not a boyfriend or husband, maybe if the guy is so cool he volunteered himself to be a foster father to your kids and or a father figure to them, you think he wants you because he stayed with you in a few days weeks or in a short while and feel that both of you have the same feelings, interests and urge, you are comfortable with each other from then on. We often think that he is ours and that he is a big catch a good one for our family's welfare. You give yourself physically and emotionally because of what you falsely or make believe and think that the guy really fall for us. And when the time comes that the man told you that" all he wants from you is your " friendship" that's all he can offer, for some reasons he don't want you to be his life partner. Your world turn upside down. You got alarmed because the first time you meet the guy you already give in with your feelings and slept with him offering yourself with out thinking that he might be turn off to you, or feel you as friend or a sister for that matter. You want him because for you he is really a good catch that's why you want to tagged him and got him because it has something to do with your life's security and most of all your whole family's secured future. But what are you going to do when you learn that he has already his most special someone , what will you do specially when you learn that he has already a child to that special someone and planning to have a family with their own, are you going to fight and stand for what you believe is right? that you need to get him by hook or by crook? Or your going to hurt the woman that the guy loves because in your thoughts my life is already upside down why cant she be? And so you always insists yourself to him by maintaining the communication with the guy knowing you can hurt that special someone and your going to destroy the relationship between the woman whom the guy loves and is the mother of his child, are you going to established relationship with the guy with all the laid off truths that he just want you for a friend. Are you going to ruined someone's life because you feel yours are ruined already? Are you not afraid of bad karma that whatever you sow that's what your going to ripped off, it will fall on your children. As a woman and as a mother we cannot stand to see that our kids specially our daughter lead to experience such a very hurtful and painful thing because of what we did in the past just to support their needs and to have a good future in the expense of others, Every woman has her own needs we are hook of what future we can give to our children in order to have a good future. We can support our family our needs if we think positive, we need to work hard to sustain this world but do it in away that you cannot destroy the life of others and yours. Just putting yourself in the shoes of others in order for you to feel what it is like when others do it to you the way you do. Woman we have the power, we have the courage and dedication, we have all the strength and inspirations, our family and kids are reason enough for us to choose the good things and make it right!