Hormones Or click

We use to have question in our minds..for guys to have a beautiful women in their lives, an attractive smart women..for women to have a good relationship that will last long. Most of the men go for an attractive a sort of trophy type of women that he can be boast and proud of but most of the time only lasts for a couple of days, weeks and months just part of their collection. In the other hand women also collects a eligible bachelors, good looking guys and financially stable and a masculine sexy type of a men. But what do we really need to have to spend the rest of our lives with? Is it only good looks, sexy, handsome or rich? Or the one that stirs our bodily wants and needs. Based on the questions I throw to a number of guys most of the time they try to identify the girl they meet if its only for bed, for one night stand or for keeps. Most of the time they say its the hormones who makes the guys wants a girl with physical contact. According to them most of the time hormones rule over brains and they go for lust because hormones have everything to do with lusts and breeding. Tricks is also part of the game, if its not the women who do the tricks its the guys to get the girl  
 and see the girls as a pleasure an apple or appetite of the eyes and leave as if nothing happens. But not at all time this things happens because there still what we call love or click for that matter. Guys have something to do with an A-Team: meaning most guys wanna hang out with male friends because that's safe. When the time comes that the guys and girls becomes serious when they are both bored of the things they do either its the male or female group they leave the group and start looking and finding for a click of a guy to a girl and girl to a guy. They become soft and ready to fall in love or have a click to a certain individual that makes them feel different. When this time comes you will distinguish the difference of for a hormones sake or for a click. But you don't need to look for it because it will really come you  if its your time  to have a click but for the hormones its always anytime...So woman be aware if what you really feel is click or if its just hormones because it is time wasting. And Man be responsible enough if you don't feel the woman you meet as your click ..please don't try to be unbecoming of a man by letting your hormones moving...So to anyone don't waste your time, listen to your first instinct, hear your heart out it will lead you to a better way of life.